an article:(writen by Engr. I.E.Muomah) titled;
THE SECRET

 One might ask what that to be hidden is; if such is a secret, what is the need to reveal it, but I can tell you that I see it as a secret because of the vulnerable influence it have created in the minds of so many people especially youths. The truth outlives ones life. I still maintain the fact that Honesty is the best policy. Friends have always said that it is difficult for one to be honest, all through; but note it that “he that speaks truth exhibit righteousness but a false witness is deceit”. What makes you whom you are is what comes out of you and that influences your life. If your life is full of deceit, the effects will (Miss Ester C Muomah)come all of a sudden and you live to regret it. I have learn by heart this and found it to be true that Truth will surmount every arguments if you stick to it long enough; although honesty may not be fashionable but it is always right. Note this, is funny but important; two half-truth don’t make a whole truth. Don’t think of speaking half truth; “a lie has only one leg and must be supported by another lies”- T.L.Osborn. Even if there is no acceptance for honesty, better still, it has no substitute.
 What youths of this day called love is not love but is a mere camouflage aim at victimizing their target. Thy mistake it as just being romantic; but one thing you must know is that God is love. His love is termed Agape; the feeling of compassionate, security, neutral and balanced; which is often seen in the life of parents. Erotic love in the other hands is is a focus on sexual desire, especially the feelings of anticipation of sexual activity. It is when you see that person for the first time and he/she makes your knees go weak or gives you butterflies in your stomach. Fondly called "Love at first sight”. Most people don’t even love the person they think they are in love with…they fall in love with the idea if being in love. This is more of a lustful kind of love; it wears off after a while and hopefully leads to regret. Thus beware of so-called romantic/erotic love. Finally, I will not forget the last best known love, (after the first one in this article) recommended by me which is phyla love. This is the sincere love, the love that lasts forever. This kind of love comes when you have found the person you are destined to be with. Nothing can destroy unconditional love. It is like when you have an argument or disagree about something with that person and you realize that it doesn’t bother you because the love you have for him/her overcomes everything. Remain bless for understanding.  

Master I.E.Muomah
(Cyber World Computer College Nnewi, Anambra State Nigeria)

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LOVE QOUTE
 "Love never grows when its secretly kept locked in our hearts. Love will only find its fulfillment when it finds its way out and dwells in the heart of that person."

"If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart."

"Love is the passion that we feel inside of our hearts that we can't hide. We pretend to hide it but it burns more and more until the pain grows and grows and it never ends."

"If you think you're starting to fall for a person, don't hide your feelings because you can never tell when true love comes."

"I love you but I can't express it because I know deep in my heart that you could never be mine."

(MISS OKOLI AMARA PEACE)
"I tried to love you from afar, but I realized that it's useless that's why I have to say I love you...goodbye."

"Ask me why I keep on loving you when it's clear that you don't feel the same way for me...the problem with me is that as much as I can't force you to love me, I can't force myself to stop loving you."

"Say what you want to say when you have the feelings and the chance. Tomorrow may be a day too late. Our deepest regrets may be the things we didn't do, the opportunities missed, and the things left unsaid."

"There are so many stars in the sky but only some are radiant enough to catch your attention. Among those that you chose to ignore is that one star which is willing to continue shining for you, even if your glance remains elsewhere. "

"The worse way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them."

"Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't, but its harder to pretend you don’t love someone when you really do."

"Never be ashamed to show LOVE when you feel it 'cause one day you might realize that love is now ashamed to show itself to you."

"It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel."

"Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel."

LOST LOVE QOUTE
"Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't, but its harder to pretend you don’t love someone when you really do."

"The worse way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and yet you can never have them."

"Sometimes you dont realize how much you love someone until they stopped loving you."

"Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for they can only appreciate the importance of the people who have touched their lives."

"Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult, for strength is measured not by holding on but by letting go."

"When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness and look down upon the ground. Instead, keep your head high and gaze into the heavens, for that is where your heart has been sent to heal."

"If you really love someone, you want them to be happy...so you learn to let go, no matter how much it hurts you."

"The saddest thing in life is loving the person who used to love you."

"It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else....but it is more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you."

"When your heart is broken, you will move on, but your one true love will always stay in your heart. So dont be scared to let go because they will always be there."

"There are some things that we never want to let go of... people we never want to leave behind; but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, but rather it is the beginning of a new life."

"If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reasons he couldn't stay, don't cry too much...just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he made you happy even for a while."

"It's really painful to say goodbye to someone else that you don't want to let go; but it's even more painful to ask someone to stay if you can never make the relationship work out the way it should be."

"LOVE has it's own season and reason. You can't ask it to stay. You can only embrace it when it comes and be glad that for a moment in your life, it was yours."

"It is so sad to be with someone you thought you love, only to realize later that your heart belongs and will always long for the person you left behind."

"To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back."

"Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart."

"Love makes us all a little weaker, but in the end we all turn out a little stronger."

"Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it."

"When the tears are on the outside, the healing's on the inside."

"Cry, if you have to.. but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you."

"Love is like the truth: it will set you free."

"Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.. If you lose love, that doesn't mean that you failed in love."

"Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you... And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime."

"When I love someone, I'll do anything for that love to last forever, when I love someone, I sacrifice, I give everything he wish for, even if he wishes for freedom, it hurts so much but that's love."

"If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread it's wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it but when love dies you never have to die with it."

"In Relationships, thank God when you're hurting or crying. There you are given the chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and of yourself...then you grow."

"It's hard to say no when we really mean yes. It's hard to close our eyes when we really want to see. It's hard to forget when we really can't, but the hardest is to leave when we really want to stay."

"Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them."